May I tell you a secret? It's just between us. I spoke to a young woman a few weeks back and she asked me how to get in the crosshairs of one of my peers. She met him online and they spoke several times, met for tea and crumpets, etc.
Quick back story:
I met her at a function that my friends and I attended, and realized that she was trying to get my attention. We spoke briefly and I got the vibe she wanted more attention, but I was drunk and was getting my two-step on.
Anyway, she decided that she wanted to get to know him on a more personal level. She wanted to know how to do that. She specifically texted how she could take my place. She met me once and decided I was either replaceable or I was where she needed to be. She wasn't disrespectful or cocky. She asked plainly how does she get Lissy's moniker attached. I honestly said, becoming the friend means, you're the one he never wants. If he's meeting you for nosh and allows you to nuzzle in his fur, you are a prospective something or "other" and your actions determine what level you'll remain on.
I continued by saying that it's better to be upfront and state to him what you're telling me. He speaks english. I'm in no way responsible for swaying him in any direction toward vagoo or relationships in general. My job is to have the bail money ready and to split gas and snacks on the road trips.
I hope my advice doesn't warrant another conversation.
